1. Recognize negative patterns in your speech. Avoid using negative words, like can’t, don’t, won’t. The language you use sets the tone for face-to-face conversations and less personal group meetings. Negative thoughts and negative words lead to negative results. 2. Be positive. Most people prefer to be around positive, upbeat, optimistic peers. Make your home or workplace a pleasant place to be. Use encouraging, rather than discouraging, words. Put a smile in your voice to m